We measure our bank accounts, our net worth, our pipelines, our stock prices. Yet we fail to measure the relationship that matters most — second only to our walk with the Lord Jesus Christ:
the health of our marriage.
And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.
❦ Habakkuk 2:2 King James Version
“A vision for the marriage He gave you.”
Only your relationship with Jesus Christ outranks it. Everything else — your career, your portfolio, your hobbies, your friendships — flows downstream of these two covenants. And yet, most couples have never sat together and set measurable, scripture-rooted goals for the life they are building.
The 6F System exists to change that. It is a tool to make the invisible visible. To put the vision on the wall. To turn fleeting Sunday-morning convictions into Monday-morning movement. To give marriages a rhythm of clear priorities, faithful follow-up, and honest reflection — together.
This system is unapologetically Christian. The scripture is King James only. Every pillar, every prompt, every reminder is meant to point you back to Christ and forward into the life He has called you to as one flesh.
…but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.
Goals can hide in your head and feel productive. The Six Fs pull them out where you and your spouse can see them, share them, and walk in them together.
Walking with the Lord.
Counts 1.5 times in the Covenant Score
Anchor your marriage in scripture. Set covenant goals for prayer, study, and obedience.
Example goal
Read the New Testament together aloud
AnnualTarget: 260 chapters
“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
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As for me and my house.
Counts 1.5 times in the Covenant Score
Cherish your covenant. Parent on purpose. Build a home that serves the Lord.
Example goal
Weekly date night — no phones
WeeklyTarget: 50 dates
“Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.”
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Iron sharpening iron.
Decide who you walk with. Honor the friendships that build you up in Christ.
Example goal
Monthly meet-up with an accountability partner
MonthlyTarget: 12 meet-ups
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”
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Steward the temple.
Strength, energy, longevity — so you finish the race set before you.
Example goal
Annual physical exam — both of us
AnnualTarget: 2 exams
“Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.”
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Honour the LORD with thy substance.
Tithing, generosity, freedom from debt. Set goals together; walk them together.
Example goal
Tithe 10% of gross income to the local church
MonthlyTarget: 12 tithes
“Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.”
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A merry heart.
Plan joy on purpose. Laugh together. Rest is not optional in a thriving marriage.
Example goal
Try one new restaurant per month
MonthlyTarget: 12 restaurants
“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.”
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46 ready-made goals to start from, across all six pillars.
Faith and Family count 1.5 times in the weekly Covenant Score.
Every Sunday, each of you scores the six pillars from 1 to 10, and the app weighs them into one Covenant Score for your marriage. Move the sliders to see how it is worked out.
Covenant Score
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66 of 100.
Growing
§ IV — A Week Inside
Here is the weekly rhythm on a phone. Follow Daniel and Grace through one week: these are the app's own screens, filled in for a sample couple.
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Sit down together and start from one of 46 ready-made examples across the Six Fs — one tap fills in the form, ready to make your own.
Screen: The new-goal screen on a phone, with ready-made examples for Faith open, among them “Pray together each morning”.
Each day brings a new verse from the King James Version to your dashboard, to carry with you.
Habakkuk 2:2 · KJV
Screen: Daniel's dashboard on a phone, showing today's verse, Habakkuk 2:2 (KJV): “And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.”
One tap checks in on a goal, and the progress bar moves for both of you.
Screen: A Friendships goal on a phone, “Host a couples' Bible study at our house once a month through the spring”: 2 of 6 evenings, 33%, with a Check in button.
Five minutes each: score every pillar 1–10, then share wins, struggles, gratitude and prayer requests with your spouse.
Screen: The weekly reflection on a phone: a slider for each of the six pillars, each scored from 1 to 10.
Your two reflections become one Covenant Score out of 100, with Faith and Family weighted 1.5×.
Screen: Daniel's dashboard on a phone: the couple's Covenant Score, 70 of 100, Growing, from Daniel's and Grace's reflections together.
Each weekly reflection fills one square. A year on, the two of you can see it plainly: the weeks you showed up, the streak you are keeping, and where each pillar stands.
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44of 52 weeks reflected
One square per week. Filled means at least one of you reflected.
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Weeks in a row with a reflection from either of you.
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Each pillar's average, 1–10, across the 44 weeks reflected.
Faith and Family count 1.5× in the Covenant Score.
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Your marriage is worth measuring. Your home is worth steering on purpose. Begin today.
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